How to Impress a Girl
Ask any man how to impress girls and he would tell you that impressing women isn’t an easy task and how careful he is while trying to impress the girl he likes. Well women aren’t so foolish to believe what they see. If you overact before them, they will catch you in a minute. So instead of trying to be what you aren’t, just stay normal and be yourself. To know what to do to impress women, read the following tips-
The best way to impress is to not impress: Yes this might sound weird but it’s true. Women do not like extra efforts in trying to impress them. If you try to show unnatural behaviour and attitude, it is most likely that she will catch you. Though she may not say anything to you but she will put you in the category of “Show Off”. So let your course of action be automatic and natural instead of painted with fake behaviour.
Have a great attitude: Be fun loving and easy to go. Laugh and make her laugh. If you have such attitude, she would love to hang out with you. If you keep sulking and whining all the time before her, she would avoid you as much as possible. Remember- Girls love guys who can make them laugh.
Groom yourself: Always be well-groomed when you meet her. This includes smelling good, no bad breath and wearing good clothes. Use a good perfume or deodorant that attracts women. Brush your teeth or use mouth spray to keep bad breath away. Also whatever you wear, they should be well ironed and must fit you well. Girls do not like guys wearing ultra tight or baggy clothes. So make sure they fit you well. Also take care of your jeans or trousers. Many guys wear ultra low waist jeans that make their butt cleavage visible while sitting. Girls hate that. So make sure you wear the right clothes when you meet her.
Be Respectful: Treat every girl with dignity and show full respect. When girls see guys treating women with respect and not getting embarrassed by a guy’s action, they like them even more. It’s like a reassurance that she’ll be treated well when she’ll be with you.
Listen to her too: Some men are so desperate to share their tales with a woman that they keep talking and do not let her speak. It is important to let women do more talking because they love to be heard. If you listen to them carefully and also pop up their subject during new conversations next time, they would be highly impressed.
Have good conversations: To impress a girl you like, avoid discussing controversial or sensitive topics. Discuss something that can make her laugh or take more interest in the conversation. Sensitive topics should be avoided because they may create tensions between the two of you.
Try little flirting with her: When you sit down to talk, try flirting a little with her. Make eye contact and give a slight smile. If she smiles back, you know you are on the right track. Don’t be the one to take off your eyes from her but also don’t stare for too long. When she smiles back, touch her arm or shoulder for a few seconds. Physical touch is important to show that you are interested.
Do not make her jealous: Do not try the jealousy angle with her by complimenting her female friend. She might get angry instead of getting jealous. Praise her friends but do not point out specific qualities of specific girls. Instead praise them in a group without mentioning any name. If you take names, she might not like it.
Do not talk shit about her or your ex: It’s a bad practice to talk shit about your ex because it gives a negative impression about your own thoughts about a girl. Also always talk high about your current crush. If she learns anything about herself from a common friend, it should be positive and not negative.
Do not become her pet dog: Do not obey her like a dog because she will lose interest in you. Show her that you have a certain mindset about certain things which will not change easily. It will look like a challenge to her to change you. This will make her follow you. Always listening and agreeing with whatever she says will not make her get attracted to you.
Make her feel good about herself: Talk about her talents and accomplishments instead of yours. This will make her feel good about herself and she will think that you acknowledge her achievements in life.