How to get a Man to Commit in a Relationship
You are in a relationship but your man isn’t ready to commit. If this is your situation, you must know what his actual problem is. Men are commitment phobic. They feel settling down with one single lady will take them away from all their pleasures- bachelor parties, night out with friends, flirting and all those guy activities.
To get a man to commit to you, you need to make him realize that he isn’t going to lose anything by settling down with you. You need to have a heart to heart connection with him. How can you develop that connection? Read on.
Words of Appreciation: You think he is handsome, humble, good and a very nice human being. But if you don’t put it into words, you are doing no good to him. Tell him his qualities, let him know what you think about him. Tell him how much you miss him when he is not around, how much you love him and what all you appreciate about him. If you tell it to him, he would know how much you value him.
Do not ask him to change himself: No one is perfect and your man is no special. He has his share of good and bad points. You need to stop criticizing him and telling him what he can’t do. If you just look at his positive points and appreciate them, he would be more than happy to be a part of your life. Do not ask him to become someone he isn’t. Accept him the way he is and that will make him like you more.
Ask him to do tasks that boost his self-esteem: When you ask your man to help you get the container kept on the top most shelf of kitchen, you indirectly tell him he is capable of doing it. This boosts his self-esteem. Asking a man to use his masculine power to do a certain task is a great ego booster too. Women are considered delicate while men are considered strong. You need to appreciate his body, his physique so that he feels good about himself.
Stay Happy: If you keep a sad face all the time or if you keep cribbing, it’s not going to make him show pity. But if you stay happy, he will enjoy your company. He would look forward to spend more time with you. If you keep your focus on the negative aspects of life, he will be convinced that nothing and no one can make you happy. So let him know how lovely person you are and how much fun it is to be in your company.
Take his Side: Even when he is wrong, you must support him initially so that he knows you will always be with him. That will also make him come to you each time he is sad or in a trouble. You can later explain things to him but whenever there is a trouble, a conflict with friend or an argument with boss, make sure you take his side. Do not start explaining to him why he is wrong. Just listen to him and support him. There is always a right time for everything and you can explain him his wrong doing later.
To make a man commit to you is tricky. Only when a man has full faith in you, he will trust and love you. All you need to do is connect with his heart so that he automatically thinks about you in every situation. Become a woman that gives him freedom, makes him happy, supports him, trusts him and loves him more than anyone else.