How to Approach a Guy you don't know
It is not just guys who want to approach girls, but also girls who want to approach unknown guys they find nice. What stops women from approaching men is a simple negative thought that makes them think about the same multiple times with all clauses and consequences.
Some girls do lack confidence, while some just do not think it is right for them to approach any guy. Whatever it is, if you don’t go up to a guy, chances are someone else will grab this opportunity and you will be left regretting all your life. So no matter how nervous you are, you must make an effort to go and talk to him.
When girls know they have no feelings for the guy, they can go and talk to him, ask him for directions or even have a casual talk with him. But when they know they want something more than just casual talks with the guy, their attitude changes and anxiety takes over. So many ‘ifs’ and ‘buts’ dominate their thought process.
You can gain confidence to approach guys by following a few tips:
Always dress to your best: Whenever you are going out, make sure you look good. This doesn’t mean putting on your best dress and make up all the time. Guys prefer girls who look natural and simple. So dress up nicely and feel good about yourself to have that confidence to approach a guy.
Always think about positive result: Get motivated to approach a guy and get positive response from him. Do not think too much about what he would think and say. Let him do whatever he wants to do, you play your part and leave the rest.
If you don’t do it, someone else will do it: Remember there are many girls who want to get hooked with the guy you like. If you don’t approach him, some other girl will, and you will have to look for other options. How many times will you pass on your likes to others because of lack of confidence?
So better gather some courage and go talk to him. Start with casual conversation, like asking for some directions and move on to better conversation topics to get more comfortable with him. This will help you break the ice and get into the flow.